Skip to main content

Stay Hungry Stay Foolish...

This most likely resonates the Friday night story of all 20 somethings… How was the weekend, what did you do…most questions, most answers, most conversations center around booze- the weekend vice…

We take the pill of ‘life-which- we- do- not- appreciate’ each week and detoxicate ourselves with booze each weekend. Running from Mondays to Fridays so that the rest two days are spent in a manner that they do not even register in memory…the least the recollection, the better they were spent.

What is it that makes booze and weekends a great combination?

They are both tangible examples of Escapism. Now don’t take me wrong…I am a big fan of all three-weekends, booze and escapism –hence no offenses meant. But escapism is there for sure. Escapism to own what we do, or rather to disown that we are doing nothing about what we want to do.

There is this baton that TGIF comes with. Weekdays take the brunt but hand it back on Fridays. And it’s painful to handle it for 3 nights-we quickly want to run and pass it on –this baton of purposeless, futile and aimless flight. The baton which comes with the realization that we have put all the fire and zest in us at back burner, and hard to admit, have sneaked in the herd….another rat in the race..

Look around yourself on a beach or wherever you feel you can easily introspect, there are clones of you in alternate lives-some making plans, some ignoring them-like you and some others have given in to the fact that they are no longer trying….

I feel these 10% people who are planning or have resigned from it are convinced, maybe non drinkers and so much better than those still fooling themselves.

Frankly there is nothing wrong in drinking and forgetting. You can do some wonderful things that ways…things that can change life as you know it- few last till the buzz, other surface till much after that …if they are beautiful, no regrets…if aren’t….bear it…

Part and parcel of unspoken code you sign the moment that bottle opens. Weekends are subject to risks, read the labels carefully.

But drinking to forget is a bit complicated…make it a habit, you make yourself one in the herd. No harm frankly if you choose to be that. Just be aware and accept.

Drink, Stay Hungry, Act Foolish....ALARM...SNOOZE...Monday.

“ Mama can tell me I’m going nowhere, I’m just a prisoner of my fate…”

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Hum koi waqt nahi hain humdum, jab bulaoge chale aayenge...

This was probably my first encounter with beauty of words. Then I delved deeper and with each Ghazal, the appreciation deepened. The synonym of ghazals and nazms- Jagjit Singh passed away today. Its a life well led. One after another, i sifted through my playlist and couldn't decide which was the best ghazal... It started with 'Tere khat' where i would find myself deep in thoughts of eternal love...What beauty! "Tere khat aj mein ganga mein baha aaya hoon.... aag behte hue paani ko laga aaya hoon..." and then it slowly found its way throuh 'Arth' and 'Saath-Saath' As he would slowly conclude with "Kyun samajhti ho mujhe bhool nahi paogi," I would be filled with mixed feelings of if he is mocking at her helplessness or pushing her to liberation. The urge of "Ek zara haath badha de to pakad le daaman, uske seene mein sama jaaye hamari dhadkan, itni qurbat hai to itna faasla kyun hai" the difficultly of grasping core urd

Lacklessness of a Yes

"No." Its not just a word; it's a complete sentence in itself... This dialogue got its overdue appreciation in the hindi movie 'Pink' wherein a lawyer is trying to point out meaning of No on behalf of the protagonist and all women in general... He says this regarding consent and how a simple No is a sentence in itself in all matters of will and accord. I completely agree with it though that's not what this post is about. That's the trigger of my particular thought which got pronounced in following months after watching the movie. My thought was a complete antithesis of the point presented. Later I happen to be attending a training where it came up how one must be assertive and not hesitate when they want to say No. This is known to be a very common problem it seems that people find it difficult to say No. It maybe to reject someone's idea or proposal or in general extends to all experiences in professional and personal life. Last nail on coffi

Thank you for not raping me...

It's close to a year since that happened. A cold as well as cozy new year's eve....We just saw the sky lit up with fireworks celebrating onset of new year. A landmark we ink in our brains with numerous resolutions,  starts, breaks and what not. A need to be away from what we do all year long took me to a drive instead of a party and that's when it happened... Highway...mishap...robbers...car stopped..dragged out...thirty minutes of captivity..or did years pass...some lost money, few stolen valuables, scars that last actually and factually- both. Parting dialogue " Ye to hum the toh ladki ko nahi chua warna yahan aur gangs hain jo chhodti nahi hai" I did something I can totally understand now. What happens to be my only or one of the rare instances of folding hands in gratitude in front of someone, I said "Thank you for not raping me." What is ironic is that it was a Mumbai highway, not my very own city-the rape capital of India-Delhi. What is ironic